Since 2011 is coming to a close, I figured now would be a good time as any to reflect on what has happened throughout this year. Of course, like so many others, I have had to face many challenges which have affected my view on life immensely. I’ve learned that saying good-bye, whether to a friend who moves away or to a relative who passes on, is never easy; that no matter who your captain is, if they are not by your side when your ship is sinking then they are not worthy of your commitment or efforts. Unfortunately, I learned this the hard way, and this is a ‘to-be-continued’ since I won’t know how my ship will fair until the coming year. I learned that as much as we want things to go our way they seldom ever do.
Aside from these hurdles, there have been some good times in the year too. I turned the Big 2-1 and had the time of my life with some of the most important people in my life. I saw firsthand that puppies and babies come at the best times. I had many laughs around my kitchen table and driving around in the car with my best friend.
So, with this, what can I teach you? Well, I guess it starts with the simple things. Enjoy your time with family and friends whenever possible because it is through them that we can better understand ourselves. Their unconditional love makes life bearable when times get tough. Next, do not be ashamed to take some down time. You will help no one if you do not take care of yourself first. Finally, never forget what it is to laugh. Sometimes, in the darkest moments of your life, laughter can be the best medicine at your disposal.
Now, my New Year wish for you is simple: I wish you always have what you need as opposed to what you want, I wish you learn to love as well as learn what it is to be loved, and I wish you laughter through the tears because there has not been a year without both of them.
P.S. Don’t forget, the best is yet to come <3
